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When visiting Italy, how should an American act? 

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Yo Kass answered
I lived in Rome for several years, and attended an American high-school, so I'm well-aware of the challenges that expats face when living in Italy.

In terms of safety, I'd recommend Americans act in a way that doesn't attract negative attention. Other than that, simply enjoy the country - that's all there is to it!

How Americans should act in Italy


Many of my classmates had parents who were employed either by the embassy, or the military - and these organisations would issue strict warnings about how Americans should conduct themselves in Italy to ensure their safety.

All this was before the 9/11 attacks, and yet the advice we received at school still applies today.

Italians are very warm and friendly people but, like any local population, can be uncertain, curious or even disgruntled by the presence of outsiders.

My school was only a few minutes away from an Italian state school and, although there were no major problems, it's fair to say our presence was less than welcome.

Many locals perceived the American kids at our school as boisterous, loud, trouble-makers (and, in fairness, some of them were!).

However, Italy is a country very familiar with foreigners, as tourism is central to its economy! Therefore visitors are made to feel very welcome.

Outside the well-lit tourist path though, I would recommend trying to draw slightly less attention to yourself. Italy is not a dangerous country, but anyone who stands out as being foreign and vulnerable will always attract opportunistic criminals.

There are plenty of cities and neighborhoods in the States that you wouldn't recommend a tourist to visit whilst wearing khaki shorts, and with an expensive Nikon camera hanging from their neck. It's the same in Italy.

The best advice I can give is to check out some expat community sites. Wanted in Rome is an English-language community site that I used quite a lot. There are similar communities all over Italy too!
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Stuti Ahuja answered
It is important that you learn a little about the Italian culture, tradition and life-style before you head to the country. Italians are very warm and welcoming people and family is an important factor in their lives.

There are no specific behavioural guidelines you have to follow with the Italians. They are very easy-going and they love to share their joy. Be sure not to refuse an invitation to break bread at an Italian family's house. Also, a smile can work wonders and is widely appreciated.

Conversation is art; Italians love to have intense conversation at any point of day. So, a clever joke or an interesting topic will help you break the ice. However, Italians do like to casually discuss personal or family life as well.
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donna jackson answered
Italians generally really enjoy meeting Americans, However, in certain parts of Italy in the northern regions, they are very formal outside their own homes, so you won't meet them in bar chatting up strangers as you might in other countries.

They are mostly very fixated on family, and contrary to public opinon, few can converse in English, however in the tourist towns they do speak some English. You will be hit on by Italian men if you are a woman without a male partner, that is just a given. They may even follow you making kissing noises: Some people love all this attention while some hate it, it depends on you.

The tourist towns are full of other Americans and other foreign tourists, who you will bump into around every corner, and maybe make some new friends.

You may want to take a look at the blog www.italyexpat.blogspot.com which has posts and comments on life in Italy, and also links to train travel, accomodations and places to see.

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